Alicia Davis says she will not even consider a suitor if he earns below £150,000(Image: Jam Press/@aliciadavisxx)
Finding a meaningful relationship in today’s world can be a complex journey, especially with the rise of online dating and countless choices. Alicia Davis, a former pri$on officer turned adult entertainment personality, has captured attention for her clear and unapologetic stance on what she expects from a partner. She openly shares that she refuses to date anyone earning less than £150,000 annually — a standard some call ambitious, others call “savage,” but Alicia insists it’s simply knowing her worth.

Alicia first went viral last year after publicly revealing her stringent dating requirements. Her list includes qualities like being in good physical shape, a clean relationship history, and above all, a strong financial footing.

“I won’t even consider a suitor who earns below what I require,” says the 32-year-old Australian Gold Coast native. “I won’t settle for less and have a clear idea of what I want.” Despite being single, Alicia is hopeful about meeting her “Mr Right,” and emphasizes the importance of shared goals and independence. “The majority of the requirements I had on my dating list still remain and are incredibly important to me... he needs to have his own goals and dreams. I’m generous with money but I don’t want someone to be solely dependent on me.”

Her journey from a pri$on officer earning £46,000 to an adult entertainment model making a reported £280,000 annually has transformed her financial outlook—and her expectations for a partner. “If a man wants to be with me, he needs to earn at least £150,000 per year or more,” she adds firmly. “I deserve to be spoiled.”
Alicia previously worked as a prison officer and now works in the adult entertainment industry(Image: Jam Press/@aliciadavisxx)

Alicia acknowledges the backlash her statements initially sparked. “I received a lot of backlash when I first shared my dating requirements list but that’s typical for people who are miserable. They don't have a clear idea of what they want so they take issue with the fact that I do.”

With over 126,000 Instagram followers, Alicia has remained steadfast in her beliefs. “I don’t care if people disagree. It’s so naïve—laughably, really—for people to think no man will match my list. This is just the basics, if you ask me.”

Her candidness extends to other preferences too, including intimacy. Alicia has stated in the past that her future partner must have a “good sized” physique, referencing a previous comment about wanting “nine inches.” She explains, “I have an active libido and I want them to be able to keep up, and be able to satisfy my needs with what they bring to the table in terms of size and experience. This angers a lot of people but why should I sacrifice my s3xual pleasure?”

Emotional maturity is equally non-negotiable. “They must have done the work to become more emotionally intelligent. Loyalty and respect are also non-negotiable. Any sign of otherwise and they aren't worth another second.”

Alicia also shares her preference for partners with tattoos, muscular build, and dark hair. Appearance and grooming matter as well; “They must be well groomed and dress well,” she says.

Despite her strong stance, Alicia’s family and friends support her, albeit jokingly commenting on her pickiness. “My friends and family are entertained by my pickiness. They laugh about how savage I am and how fast I get the ick, but they also understand and respect that I know what I want.”

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Reflecting on her time as a pri$on officer, Alicia recalls how inmates often “tried their luck” with her, a scenario unique to her among female staff. “Who wouldn’t enjoy the attention and compliments, but I had to constantly reject them. Sometimes, on the day they were released, they’d find my Instagram and ask to meet up. The men would get a rise out of me responding to their advances or remembering their name, which seems h@rmless—but everything they do is a test. It quickly becomes a game of manipulation.”

Since leaving that job and joining OnlyFans, Alicia says she now enjoys the freedom to “wear what I want and flirt with whoever I want, without fear of getting pun!shed.”

Her story highlights the challenges and complexities of modern dating, where clear boundaries and self-respect are becoming essential for many. Alicia’s message is clear: knowing your worth and not settling is empowering, even if it invites cr!ticism.

Conclusion

Alicia Davis’s unapologetic approach to dating and self-worth challenges traditional dating norms and sparks conversation about expectations in relationships. Her financial and personal standards, alongside her emphasis on emotional intelligence and mutual respect, resonate with many who believe in valuing themselves first. As dating landscapes continue to evolve, Alicia’s story underscores the importance of honesty, boundaries, and confidence in pursuing fulfilling connections.